The Best Moments From A Bountiful Season

The months of October and November were busy and fulfilling moments of time. There was a lot of journal writing during these two months.  I have been writing a lot of my thoughts and feelings as we have cherished times with family and friends. 

We had a great adventure with our friends, John and Jamie.  We drove up to Eureka, Utah. As I child I used to go with my Dad on his delivery of IceCream to different establishments from Richfield, Utah to Eureka. We would then stay overnight in Eureka and go to a cowboy movie. I have wanted to drive up there for a long time, and John is from this area

. We then visited a cousin of John's who lived in Ophir, Utah.  John lived there too.  We had an incredible visit with him. He has many histories of the towns in this area and the mining that went on there. He has collected a wide variety of paraphernalia from this mining era. It was amazing. 

We attended a tournament soccer game for our grandson, Jeffery. It was fun to watch, and he is such a talented player. 

We next celebrated the birthday of our Son in law, Michael. It was a fun moment, and we enjoyed being with them all. Since they have moved here, we have experienced more celebration time with them. It was also awesome to have his mother, Irene here. She is one of my favorite friends. 

We next traveled up to Idaho one weekend to attend three soccer games of our son Travis's children. Each of the games was fun to watch. Here is a mix of the different games we visited. 

We watched our grandson, Ryley play in his game. Although they lost, he played every minute of the game. Ryley had such a great attitude and played hard. Ryley's team is in the photo above, and he is with me in the picture below.

The top photo is of our Grandson, Kason. We attended his game, and I always enjoy watching the younger teams play. It was almost more exciting watching than the older more skilled players. Kason played well, and we loved cheering him on. The younger children in the photo are our grandchildren, Haven and Layton. 

It was senior night for our Grandson, Ethan. They won their game, and at the end of the season, they took State. They were an inspiring team to watch, and we loved watching Ethan play. Since it was Senior night all of the seniors were recognized. 

We had a great family dinner with both of our two families the following day. We enjoy fun moments with James, Amber, Christian, Taylor Jo and Averi. Then Travis, Amanda, Justice, Jaxson, Ethan, Karli, Ryley, Kason, Layton, and Haven. 

We enjoyed Halloween with Michael, Jenni, with their children, Alyssa, Emma, and Benjamin. Our three grandchildren went out to go trick or treating in the neighborhood. We ended up with way too much candy left over. 

Our awesome Grandson, Joshua turned 12 years old, and we went up to Heber City for his Ordination to the Aaronic Priesthood and the office of a Deacon and then a lovely dinner afterward. 

We had a great time watching some adorable 8-month-old twins for Tyler and Allison. These twin boys are so cute and comfortable to have over.  Later we went to their home for dinner. They have an older son, Caden and then the twins; Logan and Liam. We loved spending time with this great family. 

Our beautiful Granddaughter, Justice went through the Rexburg Idaho temple for her Endowment on November 6th, 2018.  We drove up to be with her and handsome Jaxson. They are engaged to be married. It was delightful to be in the temple with our two families and enjoy this significant time with her. 

On Friday, November 16th, we attended the Wedding dinner at the Lion House for our Granddaughter Justice and her Jaxson. It was a lovely dinner. We felt blessed to have our oldest son, Sean, and Mary, of course, Travis and Amanda and their children and our Jenni and Michael. It was a marvelous occasion, and we enjoyed getting to know more of Jaxson's family. 

Our dear Granddaughter, Justice, and Jaxson were married in the Salt Lake Temple at 9:30 am on Saturday, November 17th, 2018. It was a very memorable moment, and we enjoyed the counsel given by the sealer, and the ceremony was lovely. 

Of course, I think these two are such a beautiful couple. We love Jaxson and are excited to have him as a grandson too. 

I loved the photos of the two of them but enjoyed taking some of our Granddaughter with us, then her Uncle James and Aunt Amber; Uncle Michael and Aunt Jenni. 

The family photo is of our children, Sean, Mary, James, Amber, Michael, Jenni, Roger and I, with our son Travis, Amanda and children, Justice, and Jaxson, the newlyweds; Karli, Ryley, Kason, Layton and Haven plus Amanda's parents, Pierre and Brenda and her brother; Eric and Jared. 

After the wedding, we hurried home to grab our suitcases and head up to Rexburg for their reception. They had an enchanting evening, and we enjoyed being part of the festivities. 

It was a little emotional watching our son Travis dancing with his sweet daughter and then Jane, Jaxson's  Mom dancing with him. It was breathtaking to watch these two young now married couple dancing together. They are such a perfect match. This was a favorite tender moment for sure. Loved watching them cut their cake and she shoved a pretty big piece into his mouth, and then he kissed her; it was so cute. We enjoyed being with our other children. I love seeing my other grandchildren, Alyssa, Taylor Jo, Christian, and Averi along with all of Travis and Amanda's children.

At the end of the reception, everyone had a sparkler lit as they came down the stairs to leave for their honeymoon. It was an exciting experience. These kinds of events always bring back memories. 

The next day was our sweet Amanda's birthday. We all went to church and then had a birthday dinner. Our two newlyweds showed up. It was also pleasurable to spend some time with Amanda's parents. Travis and Amanda have a very lively family, and we have fun and laugh a lot. 

My 73rd birthday was a fantastic one. My dearest husband always makes my day a good one. It was gratifying time to share with Michael, Jenni, and their children. I do enjoy having them near. The highlight was going to a play at the Hale Theater; "The Scarlet Pimpernel." It was spectacular. The costumes, scenery, singing, and acting was flawless. Watching it on the Hale Theater Stage is an incredible experience. It a theater in the round and you can feel and see all of it better. I was smiling and laughing through it all. 

Our Thanksgiving this year was smaller than usual. We usually have had our son, Sean, Mary and their entire family down. They went on a trip for a soccer tournament, so we enjoyed having Michael, Jenni and the kids with us. It was less busy and a little more peaceful. We did enjoy the whole day. Our endearing grandson, Benjamin was sick and didn't even get to eat Thanksgiving dinner. Being sick on Thanksgiving is the pits. 

Here are some recent photos of our remarkable missionaries. They email their families and friends each Monday. They are all three enjoying spreading the gospel of Jesus Christ. They have some incredible experiences, and they are all growing in so many different ways. We are so proud of all that they are doing for our Savior. Of course, you can see that The Book of Mormon is the most effective tool that Missionaries have. It is the most influential book on the earth today. 

 I decided to share these photos of my three Granddaughters that are seniors this year. Taylor Jo lives in Idaho, Sarah lives in Washington and Abbey lives in Minnesota. They are very close friends and text each other a lot. Right now they are planning on attending BYU Idaho and live together. That is a dream come true for their grandmother. I am so happy that they have a close relationship with each other. 

This past week we took a day and went down to visit my precious Aunt Alene. We always enjoy time with her. She is terrific, and we love to listen to her stories and learn from her. She will turn 98 years old in December. 

My dearest husband, Roger suggested that we purchase some flowers to put on my parents' graves on the way home, They are buried in a small little cemetery in Sigurd, Utah. I love this man of mine for his giving and tender heart. As we stopped, I shed some tears. I miss my dear parents and two brothers so much. I pray that they are close by and busy in the spirit world spreading the Gospel of Jesus Christ. I have a marvelous heritage but at times feel very lonely because of all of my family are gone. I remain grateful for my two sisters in law that brighten my life. 

Sending my love to all who stop by and read my posts. This is a long one but to be a precious time with family and friends that is worth the effort to write thoughts and journal about. It's been a marvelous couple of months. May this Christmas season find your homes filled with the true meaning of Christmas. May you remember that tiny babe born long ago that came to save us all. Because of Him, I will again see my beloved family. 

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Each year our faith, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints has a "Light The World" Christmas invitation. Starting December 1st there will be a worldwide day of service. Join us in giving service. It will be fun to learn about the many acts of service given throughout the world. 
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Happy Thanksgiving Day To Our Family and Friends~

Wishing for you all a spectacular Thanksgiving day and a year filled with grateful moments. 
I have sincere gratitude for a multitude of blessings. I often think about how grateful I am to live in this beautiful world that our Father in Heaven has created for us. The beauty that surrounds us through His creations is a gift from a loving creator.  
I have a deep appreciation for my great Eternal companion and each of our precious Children, Grandchildren and Great Grandchildren. We are an eternal family, and they are the light of my life, and I relish each moment with them. 
My dearest husband brings great joy into my everyday existence, and I love each precious moment I have with him. 
I have been blessed with wonderful parents and two brothers and their families. I have many cherished memories of my parents and brothers who now reside in the Spirit World. I feel and know that they are close in times of need. Their families remain so dear to me. 
I have many extended individuals and families that bring great blessings into my life. 
Then there are all my fantastic friends. Each adds a dimension to my life. Each has taught me many lessons, and I have grown through my relationship with them all. I love and value each of those friends that I have on social media that perhaps I haven't even met. Yet, they add blessings to my life by how they live their lives and share it. 
I have a vibrant and robust testimony that I am a child of loving Heavenly Parents. What a blessing to recognize that each and everyone I meet is a spirit brother and sister that I can care about and love. 
One of my greatest blessings is that I am a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. I know that I have a Savior who loves me and is my advocate with my Father. He is there to help me through my most difficult moments and bring great joy into my life. Through the Spirit of the Holy Ghost, I feel and know the truth of the Gospel of Christ. I am so grateful for the Atonement of Jesus Christ and knowing that He shed a drop of blood for me in the Garden of Gethsemane, that He bore the pain and burdens of all as He gave His life that we might all live again. My promise is to always remember my Savior and keep His commandments, and I will be blessed to have the spirit with me. This is a most prayed for grateful gift.
I treasure The Book of Mormon and all the other scriptures that are part of real Christian living. 
My heart is at peace each day that I serve in the temple of the Lord. Here I feel a closeness to Heaven. I find great joy in my service there. 
I believe in our modern day Prophet, President Russell M. Nelson, and our Apostles. I am profoundly blessed by their words as I follow them. 
I am grateful for the struggles of life that help me to stretch and grow in my capacity to love and serve others. I find thankful blessings and love as I serve the Lord in callings that are given to me. 
LIfe isn't easy, and there will always be difficulties and trials, but I feel blessed to know that as I conquer them all that I will become a better person from having experienced them and so I am grateful for my sacred life. 
May your hearts be filled with Gratitude as you express your thankful Heart to our Loving Heavenly Father on thisThanksgiving Day!

Here is a brief video to enjoy on Thanksgiving day! 

Children Today -

As a Grandmother, I have been observing my precious grandchildren for some time. They are being raised in a world so different from the one that I grew up in and also the one that my own children grew up in. I have some concerns about it all. I often feel sad that they aren't experiencing many of the joys that I did as a child. They seem to be indoors more and have less social interaction. 

That being said, I feel that they are more intelligent than I am, or their parents. They learn things quicker and are growing up and learning more at earlier ages. They are learning many beautiful things, but also there are dangers in what is there for them to see and learn about. 

One of my friends posted this on social media, and I really thought it was well written so I decided that I would share it on my blog.This is well worth reading, and I hope you will.  

WHY ARE KIDS IMPATIENT, BORED, FRIENDLESS, AND ENTITLED?

“Kids today are in a devastating emotional state! Most come to school emotionally unavailable for learning. There are many factors in our modern lifestyle that contribute to this.” ~V.P.

In her practice, my friend Victoria Prooday, OT is seeing something so widespread and alarming that I asked if I could share her thoughts. Due to the overwhelming interest and conversation on this topic, I am re-sharing her post.

I encourage every parent who cares about the future of his/her children to read it. I know that many would choose not to hear what she says in the article, but your children need you to listen to this message.

Victoria writes:

I am an occupational therapist with years of experience working with children, parents, and teachers. I completely agree with this teacher’s message that our children are getting worse and worse in many aspects.

I hear the same consistent message from every teacher I meet. Clearly, throughout my time as an Occupational Therapist, I have seen and continue to see a decline in children’s social, emotional, and academic functioning, as well as a sharp increase in learning disabilities and other diagnoses.

As we know, the brain is malleable. Through environment, we can make the mind “stronger” or make it “weaker.” I genuinely believe that, despite all our greatest intentions, we, unfortunately, remold our children’s brains in the wrong direction.

Here is why:

1. KIDS GET EVERYTHING THEY WANT WHEN THEY WANT IT
“I am Hungry!!” “In a sec I will stop at the drive-thru” “I am Thirsty!” “Here is a vending machine.” “I am bored!” “Use my phone!” The ability to delay gratification is one of the critical factors for future success. We have the best intentions — to make our child happy — but unfortunately, we make them happy at the moment but miserable in the long term. To be able to delay gratification means to be able to function under stress. Our children are gradually becoming less equipped to deal with even minor stressors, which eventually become huge obstacles to their success in life.

The inability to delay gratification is often seen in classrooms, malls, restaurants, and toy stores the moment the child hears “No” because parents have taught their child’s brain to get what it wants right away.

2. LIMITED SOCIAL INTERACTION
We are all busy, so we give our children digital gadgets and make them “busy” too. Kids used to play outside, where, in unstructured natural environments, they learned and practiced their social skills. Unfortunately, technology replaced the outdoor time. Also, technology made the parents less available to socially interact with their child. Obviously, our kids fall behind… the babysitting gadget is not equipped to help kids develop social skills. Most successful people have great social skills. This is the priority!

The brain is just like a muscle that is trainable and re-trainable. If you want your child to be able to bike, you teach him biking skills. If you want your child to be able to wait, you need to teach that child patience. If you want your child to be able to socialize, you need to teach him social skills. The same applies to all the other skills. There is no difference!

3. ENDLESS FUN
We have created an artificial fun world for our children. There are no dull moments. The moment it becomes quiet, we run to entertain them again, because otherwise, we feel that we are not doing our parenting duty. We live in two separate worlds. They have their “fun“ world, and we have our “work” world. Why aren’t children helping us in the kitchen or with laundry? Why don’t they tidy up their toys? This is basic monotonous work that trains the brain to be workable and function under “boredom,” which is the same “muscle” that is required to be eventually teachable at school. When they come to school, and it is time for handwriting their answer is “I can’t. It is too hard. Too boring.” Why? Because the workable “muscle” is not getting trained through endless fun. It gets trained through work.

4. TECHNOLOGY
Using technology as a “Free babysitting service” is, in fact, not free at all. The payment is waiting for you just around the corner. We pay with our kids’ nervous systems, with their attention, and with their ability for delayed gratification. Compared to virtual reality, everyday life is boring. When kids come to the classroom, they are exposed to human voices and adequate visual stimulation as opposed to being bombarded with the graphic explosions and special effects that they are used to seeing on the screens. After hours of virtual reality, processing information in a classroom becomes increasingly challenging for our kids because their brains are getting used to the high levels of stimulation that video games provide. The inability to process lower levels of stimulation leaves kids vulnerable to academic challenges. Technology also disconnects us emotionally from our children and our families. Parental emotional availability is the main nutrient for a child’s brain. Unfortunately, we are gradually depriving our children of that nutrient.

5. KIDS RULE THE WORLD
“My son doesn’t like vegetables.” “She doesn’t like going to bed early.” “He doesn’t like to eat breakfast.” “She doesn’t like toys, but she is very good at her iPad” “He doesn’t want to get dressed on his own.” “She is too lazy to eat on her own.” This is what I hear from parents all the time. Since when do children dictate to us how to parent them? If we leave it all up to them, all they are going to do is eat macaroni and cheese and bagels with cream cheese, watch TV, play on their tablets, and never go to bed.

What good are we doing them by giving them what they WANT when we know that it is not GOOD for them? Without proper nutrition and a good night’s sleep, our kids come to school irritable, anxious, and inattentive. Also, we send them the wrong message. They learn they can do what they want and not do what they don’t want.

The concept of “need to do” is absent. Unfortunately, to achieve our goals in our lives, we have to do what’s necessary, which may not always be what we want to do. For example, if a child wants to be an A student, he needs to study hard. If he wants to be a successful soccer player, he needs to practice every day. Our children know very well what they want, but have a very hard time doing what is necessary to achieve that goal. This results in unattainable goals and leaves the kids disappointed.

TRAIN THEIR BRAIN
You can make a difference in your child’s life by training your child’s brain so that your child will successfully function on social, emotional, and academic levels. Here is how:

1. Don’t be afraid to set the limits. Kids need limits to grow happy and healthy!!

Make a schedule for meal times, sleep times, technology time
Think of what is GOOD for them- not what they WANT/DON’T WANT. They are going to thank you for that later on in life. Parenting is a hard job. You need to be creative to make them do what is good for them because, most of the time, that is the exact opposite of what they want.
Kids need breakfast and nutritious food. They need to spend time outdoors and go to bed at a consistent time in order to come to school available for learning the next day!
Convert things that they don’t like doing/trying into fun, emotionally stimulating games.

2. LIMIT TECHNOLOGY, AND RE-CONNECT WITH YOUR KIDS EMOTIONALLY
Surprise them with flowers, share a smile, tickle them, put a love note in their backpack or under their pillow, surprise them by taking them out for lunch on a school day, dance together, crawl together, have pillow fights
Have family dinners, board game nights (see the list of my favorite board games), go biking, go to outdoor walks with a flashlight in the evening.

3. TRAIN DELAYED GRATIFICATION
Make them wait!!! It is ok to have “I am bored“ time – this is the first step to creativity
Gradually increase the waiting time between “I want” and “I get.”
Avoid technology use in cars and restaurants, and instead, teach them waiting while talking and playing games
Limit constant snacking

4. TEACH YOUR CHILD TO DO MONOTONOUS WORK FROM EARLY YEARS AS IT IS THE FOUNDATION FOR FUTURE “WORKABILITY”
Folding laundry, tidying up toys, hanging clothes, unpacking groceries, setting the table, making lunch, unpacking their lunch box, making their bed
Be creative. Initially make it stimulating and fun so that their brain associates it with something positive.

5. TEACH SOCIAL SKILLS
Teach them turn taking, sharing, losing/winning, compromising, complimenting others, using “please and thank you.”

From my experience as an occupational therapist, the kids change the moment parents change their perspective on parenting. Help your kids succeed in life by training and strengthening their brain sooner rather than later!

Victoria holds a Master of Science in Occupational Therapy from the Medical School at the University of Toronto and a Bachelor of Science in Kinesiology and Health Science from York University. She is founder and director of a multidisciplinary clinic in Toronto, Canada, for children with behavioral, social, emotional and academic challenges. Victoria, along with her team, has helped hundreds of families across Canada and around the world and is a frequent guest speaker to teachers, parents, and professionals.

The Restoration | Now You Know

As you all know, my faith means a lot to me. Part of the reason I have this blog is to express my testimony of different aspects of my faith, write thoughts from my heart and share moments with family and friends. 
After watching this video, I felt impressed to share it with you all. It does give a good explanation of what we believe as members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. 
I have always enjoyed studying about other religious beliefs and cultures. I thought maybe this would be an excellent video to tell you what we believe. 
May you have a wonderful week. I will be posting some fun moments with family and friends soon. 
Love you all!