Friday, July 24, 2020

"God Got The Pioneers Through, He'll Get Us Through" - Pres. Henry B. Eyring

Happy July 24 Celebration to all who are celebrating our stalwart Pioneer Heritage today! 
As I read the histories of our ancestors who paved the way through much tribulation to settle the Salt Lake Valley, I marvel at their faith and fortitude. Their stories are filled with persecutions, trials, and also many miracles. As we read these pioneer stories, they can help strengthen our own faith. Even now, we are going through a worldwide pandemic, and there will be more struggles to come. We will have stories to tell our posterity, and may they read them and grow in their own faith in our Heavenly Father's Divine Plan of Salvation. 
I continue to tell my grandchildren to journal their experiences of today. I am sure that our stories will strengthen the children of tomorrow. 
Just think about telling your posterity about what it was like to wear masks to school and social distance. Yes, there will be many stories to share. 

Today, in remembrance of our pioneer ancestry, I am sharing a story by husbands', Great Great Great Grandparents, Elias and Cynthia Harrington Bowen written by Elsie Bowen, granddaughter of Elias Bowen. 
Somewhere in the thousands of suffering exiles, the family of Elias and Cynthia Harrington Bowen made their way out of Nauvoo and started on the long miserable trail to Iowa. They had lost their home and all their belongings to the mob burnings, therefore they had very little to travel with. 
This was the third forced exodus for Elias and Cynthia, and the fourth move they had made for the Gospel they had chosen to embrace. 
Elias and Cynthia were both born in Shaftsbury, Bennington Vermont. He was born about 1809. She was born on November 30, 1811. They grew up as neighbors. He was the son of James Bowen and Rhoda Potter. She was the daughter of William Harrington and Elizabeth Hawley. They were married on December 20, 1829, and set up housekeeping in Shaftsbury, a community about 50 miles from Lincoln, just a short distance from Norwick, Vermont, where Joseph Smith's parents lived. Their first two sons, Casey Potter Bowen and Jonathan Slocum Bowen, were born in the early 1830s. 
Elias joined the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints on June 9, 1830, about two months after it had been organized. They had been married just eight months. The Bowen Family history indicated that Elias joined the church in New York. They speculate that he may have gone to New York to obtain work in building the canals and was introduced to the church there. Cynthia was baptized on June 6, 1834, nearly four years after her husband. It may have been because her parents were somewhat opposed to the church. 
When Elias returned to Shaftsbury, he became instrumental in helping to spread the good news of the Gospel. A young missionary by the name of Brigham Young was preaching the Gospel in Vermont and was wearing a small Quilt or shawl for a cloak. Elias gave him a coat, which he wore all the time he was on his mission. Sometime before 1837, the Bowens joined the gathering saints in Ohio they lived in Newburg, about nine miles from Kirtland. Elias worked with other saints in building the Kirtland temple. Their son Joseph Leonard was born there on July 5, 1837. The saints were soon driven from Ohio. In seeking refuge with a group of saints established in Missouri, Elias and Cynthia joined about five hundred other saints in a trek that took the entire summer of 1838. Their son Norman was born somewhere along the trail. To their dismay, they realized their son was blind. 
In 1838 the extermination order was issued by Governor Boggs, and the family quickly found themselves banished from another home. Their journey from Missouri to Nauvoo was filled with depravation and hardships. They were relieved to reach Nauvoo, "a place of refuge." They built a home, and Elias again helped with the building of the temple. Their only daughter, Rhoda, was born in 1840 (named after Elias' mother). 
Brigham Young once visited his Vermont friends. He commented on their lovely family and especially mentioned what a handsome boy Norman was. Then asked, "But what is wrong with his eyes?" Upon being told that Norman was born blind, He asked if they would like a blessing. They readily agreed. Brigham Young laid his hands upon Norman's head and gave him a beautiful blessing. The history simply says, "From that day forth Norman could see." 
As near as can be determined Elias and Cynthia left Nauvoo during the summer exodus of 1847 of about 10,000 saints. 
Unlike the camp of Israel, these people generally traveled in small clusters of wagons, made up of relatives and friends; sometimes from two to twenty-four wagons in a company. They seemed to just start west, making their own trail. They were probably trying to find alternate routes, which offered feed for their animals. Most groups went through Iowa. Elias and Cynthia apparently followed the Missouri borders across the entire state, probably headed for Banks ferry above St. Joseph Missouri, where Brigham Young had originally intended to cross the Missouri River. 
Those saints leaving Nauvoo with the winter exodus had struggled through mud and rain which left puddles and swamps filled with mosquitoes which spread disease through the camps of the summer exodus. 
About twenty miles west of St. Joseph nearly at the end of their journey, Elias and some of the children became ill with the fever. Joseph and Rhoda, although just young children, carried water in large buckets all one night from a spring some distance from their camp, so that Cynthia could apply cold packs on the heads of her sick family to break the fever. The children recovered, but Elias became steadily worse, and before morning he died. The older boys began preparing his grave. 
Several hours lapsed when Elias suddenly awoke, saying that the Lord had permitted him to stay with them three more days. He told them he would like to remain with them through their journey, but he was not permitted to do so, for he was needed on the other side. He bore a powerful witness of the truthfulness of the Gospel, testifying that it was as true as Heaven and Earth stand. He counseled Cynthia not to tell her family about his death. Her family was quite well to do, and he feared her brother would come and take her and the children back to Vermont. He was adamant that the children should be with the body of the church. The third day he died and was buried in the desert about twelve miles west of St. Joseph Missouri. 
It is a tribute to Cynthia's testimony and strength of character that she would follow Elias' council and chose the hardship of the trail over going back to the easier life in Vermont. 
They were destitute, but Cynthia found employment with a rancher in St. Joseph. Here she cooked for the ranch hands while her boys did chores and odd jobs. 
A company of saints came through St. Joseph after some time. The kind rancher outfitted Cynthia and the children with means to go with her people, and they traveled on to Winter Quarters. Winter Quarters was located in a place they called "Missouri Bottom" in true gallows humor the saints dubbed it "Misery Bottom." Winter Quarters was a sorry place to be. There was not sufficient food housing or anything else. Because of the lack of proper diet many suffered scurvy which they called black leg. 
In 1847 Francillo Durfee left Salt Lake City with a group of Battalion members sent by Brigham Young to Winter Quarters with wagons and supplies to help these saints move on to Salt Lake City. 
Francillo was from Vermont and lived about fifty miles from where Cynthia and Elias were born. Whether or not they knew each other before is unknown, the time place and circumstances are not certain, but Francillo and Cynthia were married. They had much in common since they were from the same area in Vermont, they had both lost their homes and belongings to mob burnings in Nauvoo. She had lost her husband to disease along the trail, and he lost his wife from trauma while bearing a child. By then, the two older boys were old enough to take a lot of the responsibility from her.  
Somewhere on the trail to Salt Lake Cynthia and Elias' only daughter Rhoda, died and was buried in an unmarked grave.  They completed the trip and arrived in Utah some time in 1849. 
Upon arriving in the valley, they traveled to North Ogden and made their home. 
In 1853, fifteen-year-old Norman, and a friend, hired on with a cattle driver going to California. At some point, the two of them became lost. Having no food, they ate some wild red berries, which were poisonous. Norman passed away. His friend survived and was later rescued. He returned to share the sad news with Cynthia and the family. 
During the April 1855 General Conference in Salt Lake City, Brigham Young read over the pulpit a list of names of men living on the Wasatch Front who were to go on a mission into the Salmon River Valley in Southern Idaho.  Francillo Durffee was 7th on that list.  He had been ordained a Seventy earlier in 1844. They were to build up Fort Lemhi and teach the Gospel to the Flathead, Bannock and Shoshoni Indians.  They were to teach them how to plant crops and farm, how to build homes and raise gardens. 
 
In 1858 the mission was discontinued.  Francillo and Cynthia came home and settled in the town of Providence in Cache Valley.  Later they took acreage over the hills into Beaver Dam, Box Elder County, where they lived and raised their combined family the remainder of their lives. 
Francillo died in 1871 and was buried in the Providence cemetery.  Cynthia died on November 2, 1883, in Beaver Dam and was buried in the Providence cemetery. 

 
Cynthia Harrington Bowen
My hope is my children and grandchildren will read and honor their pioneer heritage. When things get rough, I have often used the adage; "If my Grandmother Dora can do it I can do it". My Grandmother and many other of my ancestor stories have increased my faith in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. Great Examples of courage and faith come from these precious stories; read and enjoy! 



Saturday, July 18, 2020

Go Forth With Faith~


I smiled when I saw this graphic. In this current day, I look hard for those things that uplift my soul. 

I took a two-day break from social media, and I think I may pause for longer. It is incredible how nice it was not to see all the negative thoughts and comments out there. However, I do know a lot of good things going on and positive thoughts. I continue to wonder what is happening to us all. I love it when I see generous hearts and those who comply and wear masks to protect others. To me, this is obeying that 2nd commandment from our beloved Savior to love our neighbor as ourselves. I like it when there is a peaceful protest, but I am heartsick with the riots and destroying of property. 
 I feel like this is a test in the way of how far will we go to be loving children of our Heavenly Father. After all, we are all brothers and sisters. I have a natural love for people, but I can feel disappointed in their choices for sure and feel very sad about all the evil that surrounds us. 

For today, I want to leave a positive message of love to you all and a desire that we will all nurture our faith through these difficult times. 

I can't imagine anyone that didn't love Mr. Rogers. He was such a positive personality. His shows were all about how to love and be loved in this world of ours. Accepting one another where we are is part of that love. 
I have been reading some beautiful messages from our Prophet and Apostles. After reading some thoughts from Elder Jeffery R. Holland, I decided that I wanted to follow some of his ideas. 

Here they are: 

1. Take the time to look at yourself and see if you like what you see -

 Here are some profound thoughts from our Apostle, Elder Jeffery R. Holland. "The continuing and growing COVID-19 pandemic is an opportunity for soul-searching and self-examination, the kind of personal reflection that refines faith, strengthens character, and "increases our humility before the Lord."
This is a rare time of enforced solitude when we don't have a lot of trivia or superficial busyness distracting us from considering the truly important things in life. "Such times invite us to look into our soul and see if we like what we see there."
Elder Holland spoke to the Church News, "as millions of Latter-day Saints worldwide respond to government mandates aimed to flatten the spread of the coronavirus that has caused illness and death, stifled economies, closed schools, and curtailed daily routines across the globe. In response to the pandemic, Church leaders have suspended meetings, closed temples, and transported thousands of missionaries to their home countries.
The result is a "kind of mandatory Sabbath—a time when we step away from our normal routine, from life as usual, and consider our dependence on God and the blessings from Him we so often take for granted."
Of course, right now, many of us are going back to a limited schedule of Sacrament meetings. I suppose there will be some adjustments to being with one another again. I hope it is with grateful hearts to be with our beloved ward members. 
2. Live in Gratitude - 
Elder Holland further stated; ""things are going to 'come right.' They are undoubtedly on their way to 'coming right' already. But we owe it to our Father in Heaven to be a little more grateful, a little more thankful, and a few more inclined to remember how many problems are resolved because of God, angels, covenantal promises, and prayer."
I do think there have been many miracles, and there will be more. Heavenly Father is aware of the world and its needs. We will see great things come to past. Meanwhile, I want to have a grateful heart. When I look for those daily tender mercies, I recognize who is in charge. God is! 
3. Nourish your Faith - 
I loved Elder Holland's thoughts on this one. "The opportunity to respond to trouble and turmoil with ever-greater faith is documented over and over again in scripture—where the love of God, the sacrifice of Christ, and their many manifestations of mercy are the great constants when we face adversity of one kind or another.
This present pandemic presents a "precious opportunity to demonstrate faith," he said. "Often, those opportunities seem rare. In our modern age, we don't have to worry about parting the Red Sea, because we have engineers that can build a bridge over it. We need some reminders from time to time that those beautifully engineered bridges can collapse, so to speak. This pandemic is just such a collapse."
I, myself, have been using this time to pray with more intent and with more faith that our will and our Father's are the same. I love studying the scriptures and our Conference Reports and find many uplifting messages of hope that help me to go forth with more faith in my Savior, knowing that He is there to walk this path with us whatever it might be. 
Because we can partake of the Sacrament in our home and bare testimony to one another; this has helped me stay centered in Christ. Knowing and feeling the blessings of the Atonement in my life has increased during this time of sheltering. 
4. Ministering to others -
In today's sheltering in place, it isn't as easy to run over and visit face to face. However, there is a multitude of ways of reaching out to loved ones, friends, and neighbors. Some of the things that I have done or thought about doing are; text, email, messenger, send a letter, facetime, and the one I enjoy the most is talking to others on the phone. I love to hear the voice of a  loved one or friend. Take a moment and see if you can think of some other ways of communicating with those you love. 
In closing, I want to share the final thoughts from Elder Jeffery R. Holland in his article. "There are repeated declarations in the scriptures where we have the Lord's promises He "will be with us in all of our circumstances—good, bad, and otherwise." For example, Alma said, "I have been supported under trials . . . of every kind, yea, and in all manner of afflictions . . . I do put my trust in him, and he will still deliver me" (Alma 36:27).
"That reassurance can be a source of hope and encouragement. Whatever else happens, we will never be separated from the Savior's love and His companionship, even if we don't recognize it at the time."
"The Spirit is not blocked by a virus or by national boundaries or by medical forecasts." There are "gifts from heaven that are not limited by trouble in the land or illness in the air. . . .
"He who created this marvelous world in which we live can say to any of the elements in it, 'This far and no farther.' That is what He will say to this blight we are facing. In the presence of His majesty, even subatomic-sized creations must bend—if only figuratively—and each in its own way 'confess' that Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God, the great Redeemer of all. Under the direction of His Father, the Savior is in charge of the destiny of this world. We are in very sure and loving hands."
I will go forth in faith and believe that this pandemic will get better and that we are in His loving hands. Meanwhile, take the time to learn the lessons that Heavenly Father wants you personally to learn. During times of trials, we do learn our most significant lessons of life, and that is why we are here. We are here to pass the test. 



Friday, July 3, 2020

Happy Birthday, America! This Is Our Promised Land~

What is happening to our world and to this great country? I feel very disturbed by all of the conflict going on here at home and in other countries. We are all children of a loving Heavenly Father. We are all spirit brothers and sisters. We lived among each other in the Premortal life before we were sent here by our Heavenly Parents to obtain bodies and experience earth life.
We all have the agency to choose how we act or react to the multitude of experiences that we will have while on this earth.  There was a war in Heaven before we came to earth, and now it continues on down here. I find that so sad. 
I have noted in the last few several weeks many hot debated issues. Why can't we all just get along? Yes, we all have different opinions and beliefs. There are so many issues out there. There are political issues, religious debates, racial struggles, and COVID 19 issues.  I think we should agree to disagree and then just be kind and patient with one another. I think we can stand for what we individually believe and, at the same time, have a loving concern for others who have different beliefs. 

This great country was founded on freedom. We all desire to be free men and women. I am hoping that we might take the counsel above and "Be a little more kind, more patient, more loving, more optimistic, more giving, more compassionate, and more charitable. 

This year on the 4th of July, may I invite you to join me in making the commitment to cease our contentions and help to support and keep the Constitution of the United States viable. May we continue to be a free country, whereas individuals we have our agency to choose for ourselves the path we want to take. May we protect this freedom.

Today in closing, I thought I would share a cute little video of my precious Granddaughter, Averi, at the age of 6 playing: "When The Saints Come Marching In." What is impressive is she is blind and Austicitic and plays the piano by ear. She also likes to improvise. In this video, her cousin Levi snuck in. She is now 17 years old and still plays, but not as much. 
Enjoy!